Catch him and keep him

A while back I was doing something online and there was a link for this book. The title was 'awesome' and it reminded me what it was like to have an empowering book to guide you in snaring a man and since my last relationship was not exactly perfect, I thought that maybe I can at least laugh at reading this a bit...online. You can download it for 29 dollars and I opted not to, but not before Christian (the author) managed to get my e mail (compulsory if you want to get to the secrets that stop you from owning a good man and keeping him) so I give my e mail that I give for that sort of thing and gain entry to Christian Carter's world.
But he is a man and he does not deliver what he promised, no secretes to be read for free....
This is a man that claims he is not eloquent and is writing this from an average man's point of view yet he gives nothing away.
I loged off and forgot all about it but Christian sends me e mails all the time to remind me. At first casual ones..."Hey, I noticed you didn't but my book, this could really help you..." then more to the point. And he tries everything as he doesn't know what my problem with men is and what prescription to give out to snare me.
How to talk to men when they seem to be withdrawing. How to connect with a man on a physical level as well as emotional level. How to get him back once the fire has died. Are you constantly attracted to men that don't care about you. Do you suspect he doesn't love you anymore and you want it back. Are you overly emotional woman (I guess that scores him everyone, it is his joker) and this drives a man away? Read this and transform your life forever as my book has all the secrets to give you the power to 'catch him and keep him'.

This gives me a feeling as if men are these rare animals that one ought to ensnare. As if they are not a person in their own right, that might be different to another man in how they act, react, love, fuck, kiss, think, talk, treat women, do DIY and form relationships.
And these e mails he writes supposedly give you advice, because he chose to reveal a bit of his book, but in fact, it is just word play to ensnare stupid women to buy this shit.

"If you've had a few relationships in the past,
then you've already learned that putting the fate
of your love life and relationship in the hands of
a man to save is NOT the perfect or ideal
situation.

You've figured out that if you're going to have
a REAL relationship, that a man isn't going to
have all the answers when things get difficult or
uncertain.

Don't wait for a man to figure out how love and
a relationship works.

And sure... a man has to do HIS part and learn
and grow too.

A man needs to know how to love and be loved
too.

But wouldn't it be great if you had the
CONFIDENCE that comes from KNOWING that you could
create what YOU WANT in your relationship?"

Can it really be that easy to keep an intelligent man that has issues, for example and for whatever reasons, does not wanna commit, or love you or understand you or be that close, or figure out this stuff?
Is it really this prescriptive? If you have an itch that won't go away, it could mean allergy, eczema, irritation, yeast infection or skin cancer.
So why is this guy claiming that one ointment solves it all?
Some things you just cannot treat, no matter what you do, it is never about you and no matter what tools you bring, you will never be able to hack into their locked chest of secrets, hurts, crap, transferences, anxieties and fears....just as nobody could do that to yours. It has to be done by yourself and in a civilised manner, with a key.

But Christian won't let me go, it seems. For a man that talks a lot about crazy behaviour women project that scares men, he is certainly acting like one of his customers now in sending me daily e mails all claiming to solve different problems...hardly a good advertisement for the cool and collected approach he advises.
When I get an e mail titled "Wanna know how to get your busy ex to
have sex with you in the times of need, no strings attached?" that is when I'll buy his e-book.